Ryan Savolskis, LCSW
Oct 28, 2024

Essential Reads for Personal Growth and Healing

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Part 1

1. Daring Greatly by Brené Brown

2. It’s On Me by Sara Kuburic

3. How to Know a Person by David Brooks

4. Already Enough by Lisa Olivera

5. Unwinding Anxiety by Judson Brewer

6. Chatter by Ethan Kross

7. It’s OK That You’re Not OK by Megan Devine

8. Stop Missing Out on Your Life by Cory Muscara

9. Chasing the Scream by Johann Hari

10. The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins

As a therapist, I find that certain books can offer transformative insights and support for clients and anyone seeking personal growth. Here are some of my favorite therapeutic reads and why each is impactful.

Who It’s Helpful For: Those struggling with vulnerability, self-worth, or shame.

Summary: In Daring Greatly, Brené Brown explores how vulnerability is essential to human connection and personal resilience. Drawing on her extensive research, Brown reveals how embracing vulnerability can lead to more fulfilling relationships and greater self-worth, encouraging readers to face their fears and open themselves up to a more authentic, wholehearted life.

Who It’s Helpful For: Individuals seeking self-responsibility and growth.

Summary: Sara Kuburic’s It’s On Me explores the concept of personal accountability, prompting readers to evaluate the ways in which they can take responsibility for their own lives. Kuburic dives into themes of self-reflection, ownership, and growth, guiding readers on a journey toward increased self-awareness and empowerment.

Who It’s Helpful For: Those wanting to build deeper connections or improve relational skills.

Summary: David Brooks offers a roadmap for building authentic relationships by truly understanding others. In How to Know a Person, he discusses ways to deepen connections through active listening, empathy, and genuine curiosity. This book is ideal for anyone looking to foster more meaningful relationships both personally and professionally.

Who It’s Helpful For: Those struggling with self-acceptance and self-compassion.

Summary: In Already Enough, Lisa Olivera shares her personal journey toward self-acceptance and invites readers to consider that they, too, are already enough. The book encourages embracing imperfections and finding peace with oneself, making it a gentle yet powerful guide for anyone grappling with feelings of inadequacy.

Who It’s Helpful For: Individuals dealing with anxiety and looking for mindfulness techniques.

Summary: Dr. Judson Brewer blends neuroscience and mindfulness to address the cycles that fuel anxiety. Unwinding Anxiety provides readers with practical tools and insights to break free from anxiety-driven habits and create healthier mental patterns, making it an accessible and scientific approach to managing anxiety.

Who It’s Helpful For: People who struggle with negative self-talk and overthinking.

Summary: Chatter delves into the impact of internal dialogues on mental well-being. Ethan Kross examines how self-talk can either help or hinder us, offering strategies to manage negative inner voices. This book is ideal for readers looking to transform their internal narrative for a calmer, more positive mindset.

Who It’s Helpful For: Anyone experiencing grief or supporting someone through loss.

Summary: Megan Devine’s It’s OK That You’re Not OK challenges society’s expectations around grief, offering a compassionate perspective for those who are grieving. Devine encourages readers to honor their pain, providing validation and comfort in a world that often demands they “move on.”

Who It’s Helpful For: Those interested in mindfulness and being present.

Summary: Cory Muscara guides readers on a journey to be fully present in their lives with Stop Missing Out on Your Life. Through practical mindfulness exercises, he offers ways to engage deeply with life’s moments, helping readers reduce distractions and find peace in the present.

Who It’s Helpful For: Individuals interested in understanding addiction and the war on drugs.

Summary: Chasing the Scream explores the roots of addiction and the ways in which society has approached drug use and criminalization. Johann Hari weaves together human stories with research, challenging conventional views and offering a more compassionate perspective on addiction and recovery.

Who It’s Helpful For: Anyone struggling with motivation, procrastination, or decision-making.

Summary: In The 5 Second Rule, Mel Robbins shares her simple yet powerful technique for overcoming hesitation and taking action. By counting down from five, Robbins encourages readers to disrupt negative thought patterns and push themselves to act before self-doubt kicks in. This book is ideal for anyone looking to build confidence, break habits of procrastination, and jumpstart positive change in their life.

These books each offer unique perspectives and tools for self-growth, healing, and resilience. I hope this list provides you with a resource to turn to, whether you’re seeking insight for yourself or for those you support in their journeys.

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By Ryan Savolskis, LCSW 08 Nov, 2024
Explore top therapies—CBT, DBT, EMDR & more—to find the best fit for your needs. A guide to help you choose the right approach for mental health support.
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Learn how therapy helps gay men heal trauma, confront shame, and embrace their identity in a supportive, affirming environment.
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By Ryan Savolskis, LCSW 28 Oct, 2024
Discover impactful books for personal growth and healing. Therapist Ryan Savolskis shares top reads to help improve vulnerability, self-acceptance, and mindfulness.